Driftwood, Stain, and Our BIG To Do List

Well, today as we played outside, this little piece of driftwood caught my eye. It’s been here since we moved in and I have always loved the shape of it.cook2

So, I started thinking, maybe I could bring that INside and display it on a corner table, or even just have it on the floor.

I love having a little drama in each room. I think this particular piece of driftwood is dramatic. Some may think it’s gross.

Which brings me to my next point. It probably has bugs in it. So I called around to different taxidermists in our area (who use driftwood to mount their dead things on) and asked how to properly clean it.

They didn’t really know. They said for me to go to the local lake and find a fresh piece straight out of the lake and just dry that out so there isn’t much of a chance that anything would be living in there.

I’ll have to do that, I guess.

Or teach the kids what a termite looks like. Either way there will be lots of drama.
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I did look online to see if people buy driftwood and how much it costs.

People DO buy it and it’s expensive. This large piece, for instance, was almost $100. (And probably bug free).
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Well, another little something I’ve been up to is staining our floor register cover things.

I got a few of these real wood floor registers from Home Depot because there was nothing that matched our floors perfectly and I figured I could just sand these and stain them.

But I didn’t sand enough the first time so it didn’t get quite dark enough.PicMonkey Collage

After a lot more sanding and forgetting about the stain being on there for at least an hour  letting that stain set in for a bit, it turned out great. Just a few more of these to go.

It’s the little things. (Like those little crumbs I’m sure you didn’t notice on our new, dirty floor).
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The little things, like your kids finding out how much fun it is to “hug it out,” are a lot more fun to be a part of.

cook1Well, we’re on our way to a whole new world here.

Have I even told you how this whole Renovation Project 2013 came about, by the way?

Let me break it down. So, we were just going to paint the walls in our house.

But then we needed some new trim.

And with new trim, we might as well finish the laminate flooring throughout the main level.

But with the floor being that color of dark brown we can’t have dark brown couches.

So, we need new couches. Light colored super unrealistic with small children and a dog couches.

But, man. That floor is pretty hard and we have little tikes running around, so we are going to need a new rug then too.

And I need to paint all of our furniture to match everything that’s going on now.

And now that the upstairs looks so nice, we can’t leave our shag carpet in our basement just looking like…that.

So, new carpet in the basement it is.

Which means I need to scrape the popcorn ceilings, paint the shelves, trim and wood down there, and paint the ceilings and walls before that carpet gets installed.

BUT we will hold off on buying new furniture for our basement. See? We know what restraint is.

So, if you think you’re going to just “paint your walls” I would suggest doing just that and not looking at anything else in your house.

Be content. Use restraint. Or you will be a few grand poorer.

So, here is our big Home Reno To Do List and where we’re at in the process:

  • Laminate floor install
  • Paint upstairs and entryway
  • Paint furniture
  • Buy and install new trim
  • Sell old couches
  • Buy new couches
  • Buy upstairs rug
  • Scrape popcorn ceilings in basement (almost done)
  • Buy downstairs carpet
  • Have Home Depot install downstairs carpet (only $37 to have them install for us!)
  • Prime and paint basement ceilings
  • Paint basement shelving, trim and wood
  • Paint basement walls
  • Buy and install new pendant light in entry way where Buck will come down off that wall and forever be laid to rest (I pray)

So, we’re getting closer.

The basement carpet will be installed on June 11! So I have to get going on all that needs to be done down there before that happens.

Times a tickin’. Stresses me out a little bit. Let’s hug it out.

 

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What I Wore Wednesday: Springy Green

Here’s what I’m wearin’ today for What I Wore Wednesday.

This springy green poncho thing is from Fabrik in Des Moines, Iowa. A cute little boutique that I do miss visiting since we’ve moved.

The leggings are from J.Crew.

And the heels (which I promptly took off after this pic was taken, let’s just be real) are from Von Maur a long time ago. Long, long ago. Prior to children. And when I used to wear heels on the regular.ww1ww2 Hope you have a great day everyone! Some updates on how the house is comin’ along tomorrow!

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Cup O’ Coffee And A Confession: I’m Not Enough

coffCome, friend. Have some coffee and an oatmeal cookie with me. Sometimes you just needs a cookie (or three) right?

Ok. I have a question for you. Something that was weighing heavily on me yesterday.

Do you ever get the feeling that you’re not enough? Enough of a wife? Enough of a mom? Enough of a ___ (fill in the blank)?

I had that feeling all day yesterday. Something was in my ear saying, You can’t give your kids enough of what they need. Look JimJim’s sad because you’re giving Jada more attention. Look now Jada feels left out. You just aren’t a good enough mom to manage it all. You can barely get your laundry done each week.

And then something else telling me, You’re not that great of a wife either. You are pretty selfish. You pay too much attention to your kids. Your husband needs that too, but you can’t manage it all. You just can’t do it.

And it doesn’t take long before I start to believe it all.

And that’s when guilt, worry and fear creeps in.

I found myself crying a little last night when I thought about how I don’t know what my kids are thinking. Are they believing lies about themselves like so many of us do? Why can’t I just be enough for everyone?

Some lies that I believed about myself when I was little that I carried into my adult life were, I’m easily rejected. I’m broken. I don’t deserve good things or to be treated well.

But here’s the thing. I grew up in a great home. With parents who loved me. Who encouraged me at every corner. So where did these lies penetrate my heart? Where did they sneak in and why were they so easy to believe?

Satan is truly the Father of Lies. He’s so good at making us believe what he is saying as truth. I am a grown woman and I still have a hard time recognizing what his lies are. They can go under the radar undetected so easily.

And the truth is that I’m not enough. Alone, I won’t be able to do it all. Fill every need in every moment that it needs filling. I’m going to make mistakes. Say the wrong thing. Do what I thinks best and really it’s just not.

But  Christ is enough. And that’s the truth that little voice in our head doesn’t want us to know. WE don’t have to be enough because HE is.

I read something yesterday (can’t find it now) that said every decision we make is either out of fear or love. That makes so much sense.

I can choose to be fearful that what I am doing as a wife each day is the wrong thing for my marriage. And the choices I make as a  mom each day is the wrong thing for my kids.  That they are going to end up with so many lies to sift through in their adult life because of me.

Or I can choose to make my decisions in love. Today, I asked God to live in me. Through my hands, my eyes, my words, to just take over.

And I feel so much peace there. Just loving my husband and kids as best I can in each moment. Praying for patience when it’s needed and praying for the help I need daily, because alone I’m not enough. And the second I think I AM enough is when I’m in trouble.

So I learn to trust. Rest.

In the truth that God is here. In my home everyday. To break through the lies. To penetrate my heart. Jimmy’s heart. JimJim’s heart. Jada’s heart with truth.

How about you, friend? Is it ever easier for you to believe the lies? Can you identify what lies are being told to you everyday?

Oh, and by the way, you should probably eat the rest of that cookie before I do.

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